Is times like these you learn to live again.

"The best thing for being sad," replied Merlin, beginning to puff and blow, "is to learn something. That's the only thing that never fails. You may grow old and trembling in your anatomies, you may lie awake at night listening to the disorder of your veins, you may miss your only love, you may see the world about you devastated by evil lunatics, or know your honour trampled in the sewers of baser minds. There is only one thing for it then — to learn. Learn why the world wags and what wags it. That is the only thing which the mind can never exhaust, never alienate, never be tortured by, never fear or distrust, and never dream of regretting.”
--T. H. White,

Beautiful and true words; I think there are so much of ourselves which cannot be damaged, if we understand that we bring others the power to hurt us, there would have less pain in our lifes.. because of our goal in life is to remain always happy.
I've commented previously that we can make our life so miserable as we want, but not everything have to be bad; our live may have all the beauty, all the peace, all the hope.. It's only necessary to know them and bring them to us, like in a supermarket.
I want this, that and oh! all of those things too.
It's so easy like this, all you want in your life you can have it, only desiring it.

I think life is just a mirror, and what you see out there, you must first see inside of you and it's possible that people' shortcomings be our own ones in some way, so it's better to look at people's virtues in order to make profit of all our experiences.
To learn something new every day can save us from monotony and we can learn so many things, from why there are butterflies which live only one day until to learn to live all the years of our life, and it seems an irony.. one species can only live one day and others may live until ninety-nine years, who decides this? Human being can live a long time and even eighty years seem to us very little time and that odd feeling that we feel about can remind all our memories in a few minutes.. how is it possible to remind all our memories from eighty years in a few minutes? I don't know why.. but certainly,we do it.
It seems that we select our experiences and we clasify them and then it's when we realized that others action may rebound into us.. because all our memories aren't happy, neither are all bad.
But in our memories always appear other people in some way, because I'll always say that for me, life is based in relationships!

Finally, I must say that I hope that all my thoughts and all my feelings which I write here, belong to me forever and I be able to live in a honest way with myself the rest of my life.. though nobody teaches how to live, I know much theory.. and I wish to take it to the practice too.